Trevor’s journey began with one relationship failure after another, unaware that hidden fears were quietly sabotaging every connection. In a single season, he broke off an engagement, shattered his jaw in an accident, and was laid off from his corporate role at Tesla. Humbled and desperate for answers, he discovered that the key to lasting love was confronting and transforming those subconscious fears. From there, everything changed: he met his wife, built a deeply secure relationship, and found a sense of peace he’d never known.

With a master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy and advanced training from some of the top experts in the world, Trevor channeled his transformation into a global movement. Featured by the Gottman Institute and speaking to audiences of 10,000+, he founded The Art of Healing and the Secure Self Club, a community dedicated to overcoming subconscious insecurities and stepping into fearless love. Today, he’s helped thousands worldwide break negative patterns and create healthier, more connected relationships.

In this book, he shares the exact tools that have produced phenomenal results for the people he serves. This is your invitation to join the movement and take your first step toward secure and fearless love.