The Art of Healing by Trevor Blog

STRATEGIES & TOOLS FOR HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT

Are these Common Relationship Tips actually Ruining your Romance?

Are these Common Relationship Tips actually Ruining your Romance?by: Trevor HansonPublished on: 08/01/2026

Not all relationship advice helps. Discover which popular tips actually strengthen your relationship, which ones fall short, and what truly builds lasting, secure love.

RelationshipsPersonal Growth
Are these Common Relationship Tips actually Ruining your Romance?

Is it Love, or is it Limerence? 😰

Is it Love, or is it Limerence? 😰 by: Trevor HansonPublished on: 07/09/2026

When love feels more like an addiction than a connection, it may be limerence. Explore the signs, why it happens, and how to move toward secure, lasting love.

RelationshipsPersonal GrowthAttachment StylesConfidenceFearSelf-Trust
Is it Love, or is it Limerence? 😰

Here’s why you keep having the same fight…

Here’s why you keep having the same fight…by: Trevor HansonPublished on: 06/01/2026

Do you and your partner keep having the same painful fight? This post explores the “negative cycle,” why recurring arguments happen, and how unmet attachment needs fuel conflict—plus tools to help you reconnect and feel secure again.

RelationshipsPersonal GrowthAttachment StylesConfidenceFearSelf-Trust
Here’s why you keep having the same fight…

2 Things You’re Doing That Make Them Shut Down

2 Things You’re Doing That Make Them Shut Downby: Trevor HansonPublished on: 05/01/2026

Struggling to get your partner to open up? It might not be what you think. In this post, we unpack two common habits that can unintentionally push your partner away—criticism and creating an unsafe space for honest communication. Learn how to express your needs without triggering defensiveness, and discover simple, powerful ways to become someone your partner feels safe opening up to. If you want deeper connection and better conversations, this is a must-read.

RelationshipsPersonal GrowthAttachment StylesConfidenceFearSelf-Trust
2 Things You’re Doing That Make Them Shut Down

Anxious Attachment Coach

© The Art of Healing by Trevor 2025. All rights reserved.

Privacy Policy | Terms and Conditions